Ties That Bind, Ties That Break
Bibliography
Namioka, L. 1999. TIES THAT BIND, TIES THAT BREAK. New York, NY: Dell Laurel-Leaf. ISBN 0440415993
Plot Summary
Living in a modest compound with servants and her amah, Ailin lived a comfortable life and was a happy young girl. However, her whole life changed one day when her grandmother and mother arranged a meeting with the family of her future husband. Although she was still young this was the custom in her culture and with this custom came the painful custom of having her feet bound. Because she refused to have her feet bound, her engagement was broken and her future seemed bleak. It was her father that changed the course of her future in a positive way by allowing her to attend the public school for girls. However, when her father died her mean Uncle gave her a choice to become a concubine, nun or a farmer's wife. Ailin decided to become an amah for an American couple, which changed the course of her future by leaving with them to America, where she found a husband and owned a restaurant.
Critical Analysis (Including Cultural Markers)
TIES THAT BIND, TIES THAT BREAK is a young adult fiction novel that describes the painful struggle of foot binding and other Chinese traditions that girls have to endure during that time period. Because it is a fiction novel it also contains the regular literary elements, which include character development, settings, conflicts and resolutions. The main character is Ailin Tao and her two older sisters. Knowing that she has two older sisters is important to the story because it will set the conflict with having her own feet bound. This happened when she asked her second sister to show her bound feet. It was there that Ailin decided to defy the tradition of feet binding. This would lead the novel into other events that predicted Ailin’s future.
The novel has many in text Asian cultural markers that make the novel authentic. The description of the family’s compound and environment was very precise. The compound had fifty rooms that accommodated two families. Her Uncle’s ( with two wives) and her father’s family all lived in the same compound. This practice was very common in Asian culture during that time period. The tradition of matchmaking is also described in the novel. Her grandmother said, “It’s never too early to have your marriage settled”. “ Some babies are engaged before they’re born.” Although Ailin seemed to be okay with the marriage arrangement, she was not okay with the Chinese tradition of feet binding.
The next cultural marker that is connected to Chinese culture is the tradition of the females having their feet bound. The author is able to specifically describe the procedure for foot binding. “I sat quietly on the bed while they bound the strips tightly around my toes, bending all except the big toes against the soles of my feet. It was uncomfortable, but it didn’t feel as bad as I had expected”. “I changed my mind when I tried to get up from bed after the wrapping. Putting weight on my bound feet sent sharp stabs of pain into my bent toes, and the pain went shooting all the way up my legs”. It was her father that saved her from having her feet bound. It was this event that set the theme and other conflicts of the novel. This was because in order to get married into a wealthy family, the females had to abide by this tradition. Ailin’s family reputation and good standing depended on marrying into a “good family”.
Another cultural marker that is connected with Chinese culture are the gender roles that are described in the novel. The males were expected to be the heads of the family and had more opportunities, while the females were expected to become wives and bear children. Because the author was able to give an insider’s perspective of the gender roles, Ailin’s emotions and actions developed in the novel.
It is important to mention that the author also included a note on the tradition of foot binding at the end of the novel, where she explains the beginning of the practice. She also mentions other cultures that have other painful cultural traditions that females had to endure. “Victorian women wore corsets so tight that they swooned at the slightest excitement. African women stretched their lips as big as plates or endured female circumcision. Some American women wear four-inched-high heels that force them to totter around”.
Overall the novel depicts several Asian cultural markers that make the story authentic. The author is able to give many inside perspectives that enhance Chinese culture and create an excellent story of a young Chinese girl that defied the Chinese tradition of foot binding.
Reviews Excerpts
Washington State Book Award
California Young Reader Medal
Kirkus Review: The metaphor of things bound and unbound is a ribbon winding through this vivid narrative; the story moves swiftly, while Ailin is a brave and engaging heroine whose difficult choices reflect her time and her gender. (Fiction. 9-14)
School Library Journal Review: Written as a flashback, the story is perfect for middle grade listeners interested in Chinese culture. With a cursory allusion to the political changes in the country, younger listeners get a clear picture of the actual events happening during the time, but older students may want more thorough explorations into the role of women and the political climate at the beginning of the century.—Shanna Miles, South Atlanta Educational Complex, GA
Connections
Half and Half by Lensey Namioka